Santa Rocks!

santa-praying-to-baby-jesus.jpgNow that Christmas is nearly here once again, I find myself hearing a recurring discussion in my Pentecostal & Charismatic circles… that of the “Santa controversy.” Growing up, I wasn’t aware of any controversy surrounding Santa; I knew only reindeer, milk & cookies, gifts, and rosy cheeks. Sure, I was disappointed for an evening when I found out that Santa wasn’t real. But it was a great trade-off for the years of joy that preceded it.

So what is the great brouhaha? Oh, I suppose it’s numerous issues. I hear genuinely concerned parents afraid to tell their kids about Santa because when they find out it was make-believe, then the kids will not trust the parents; or the kids will then think that Jesus is also make-believe. I can’t imagine this even being a possibility in my childhood. Not only did I never experience trust issues with my parents after I got a revelation of St. Nick… but it never even crossed my mind that Jesus, also, might be make-believe. I suppose that had everything to do with the fact that Santa never made my parents cry, Santa was never prayed to, Santa was never hailed from the pulpit, Santa never had hands lifted to him in worship, I never took classes on Santa, I never gave money to Santa, my parents never heard from Santa… yet all this was true of Jesus. The two never once were confused in my mind. One was real and active in my family’s life; the other was a fun, holiday tradition–much like the Easter Bunny or some cartoon character.

I have heard other concerned parents voice that Santa somehow displaces Jesus at Christmastime. I suppose it is possible to do that, but it was always very plain and clear to me that we were celebrating Christ’s birth. And I always knew that Christmas was all about Jesus, even with special visits from Santa. I never expected Jesus to bring me presents on His birthday; after all, it’s His birthday, not mine! So gifts from Santa just made holiday times that much more special. It never precluded Jesus in my mind or heart. Before we ever opened gifts at Christmastime, whether from family or from Santa (and there were always both!), we would read from the Bible the story about Jesus’ birth. We never read a Santa tale, never watched Rudolph or Charlie Brown. We simply read about Jesus.

I understand that everyone has had a different experience. But I share mine just to say this: Santa can be a very wonderful part of a godly family’s Christmas season–and still have kids who are totally devoted to Jesus, and who fully trust you, and who have no problem discerning fantasy and reality. I would recommend to anyone who is concerned that their child might lose sight of Jesus in the light of Santa, to read the following true story about C. S. Lewis:

It began when 9-year-old Laurence, an eager fan of The Chronicles of Narnia, confided to his mother that he was afraid that he loved Aslan the lion (the Christ figure in the series) more than he loved Jesus. Did that make him an idol worshipper? Philinda Krieg [the mother] promptly wrote in care of the publisher and told Lewis of her son’s confusion. So concerned was the author when he learned of Laurence’s distress that the Kriegs had an answer in just 10 days.

“Tell Laurence from me, with my love,” Lewis wrote in a detailed letter, “ … [He] can’t really love Aslan more than Jesus, even if he feels that’s what he is doing. For the things he loves Aslan for doing or saying are simply the things Jesus really did and said. So that when Laurence thinks he is loving Aslan, he is really loving Jesus: and perhaps loving Him more than he ever did before. … I don’t think he need be bothered at all. God knows all about the way a little boy’s imagination works (He made it, after all) … .”

There’s something to be learned from this. Parents, if you’re in a Santa dilemma, may I recommend to you… Let your kids dream fanciful dreams. Let them imagine. Experience the wonder and joy of Christmas with them as they indulge in this wonderful, age-old tale of this joyful, benevolent old Grandpa from the North.

As for my kids, their lives are already full of tales of trolls mining gold in the walls, talking trains hiding in their ears, army men taking cover out back behind the barn, and lions lurking in the nursery closet. This Christmas, and every holiday season thereafter, I’ll be sure to add Santa to the vision of sugarplums dancing in their heads. And I, for one, will surely be receiving gifts from Santa in my stocking this year. It’s been happening for the last 30 Decembers; this year will be no different–and I would have it no other way!

~ by Adrian Schoonmaker on December 2, 2007.

10 Responses to “Santa Rocks!”

  1. I couldn’t have said it better myself! I completely agree with you feelings on the matter. I’ll just have to think of some more interesting tales to add to my kids’ imaginations as you have. :)

  2. Hey Adrian, We met through Myson during our studies at Regent. It is exciting seeing you working with such a passion for youth. MAy the Lord bless you

  3. If you know that Santa doesn’t exist and you tell your children that he does, wouldn’t that be lying.

  4. You asked me, “Wouldn’t that be lying?” Lying is, according to my dictionary, “intentional deception.” If building army forts with my boys, and telling them bedtime stories about Thomas the Train’s exploits, and riding the imaginary horsey throughout the house… if these are intentional deceptions, then yes, you are right–I am lying to my children.

    “LYING”: To present false information with the intention of deceiving. … A false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive.

    If what I’m saying still doesn’t make sense, you should spend the two hours to see a fantastic movie, “Life is Beautiful.” It will warm your heart and bring a smile to your lips.

  5. Comparing Santa to Jesus as C.S. Lewis compared Aslan to Jesus is not an appropriate comparison. Aslan is a Christ-figure, Santa is not (although we can take some great Christian lessons from the historical figure of St Nicholas). Many stories warm our hearts and make us smile, but it doesn’t mean we teach them as fact. Children understand the difference between a tale (Thomas the Tank Engine, etc) and a real story when parents make the distinction clear. A tale should be just that, a tale. And certainly we can and should enjoy them. While children should be allowed to imagine,(and truth can be communicated with imaginary stories) they should also be allowed to trust their parents’ words. Allowing them to believe in Santa Clause is compromising that gift of trust.

  6. Hi, Shannon. Thanks for the comment! Re-read my blog. Nowhere do I suggest that Santa is a Christ-figure (although that would be a worthwhile discussion!). The Lewis reference is to teach a principle about the joy, even benefits, and harmlessness of wholesome childhood fantasy.

    And I wholeheartedly agree with you: Children DO understand the difference between a tale and a real story when parents make the distinction clear. “Allowing them to believe in [Santa] is compromising that gift of trust”? Well, we disagree. I guess I’ll have to ask my oldest son in a few years, and we’ll find out who’s right! As I expressed in my blog, your statement was untrue in my life and in the life of every one of my siblings.

    By the way, what makes you so sure that Santa doesn’t exist? Ho, ho, ho! Merry Christmas, Shannon.

  7. Hi, Adrian. I think it’s clear that we both agree about children and imagination. It looks as if I read too much into the whole C.S. Lewis thing after doing as you suggested and rereading your blog (implying that you were comparing Santa to Christ as Aslan is a Christ figure in The Chronicles). However, it’s true that we part company when it comes to simple imagination and believing in Santa. These other imaginary stories and games you mentioned (Thomas, playing horsey, trolls, etc.) are understood in the context of play. Unless you’re meaning to say that your children believe these other things actually exist as well?? I don’t take that from what you’re saying, but I don’t want to assume either. I have to say though that it appears you’re trying to justify your position by using the imagination argument. My children love it when they know it’s time for us to go Christmas shopping. They love making out their Christmas lists. They have watched year after year stories such as “Santa Clause Is Coming To Town” and others. So, they (and we) enjoy this time of year. But they’ve never believed that Santa was real just as they’ve never believed that the “magical land of Sodor” or “Thomas and his friends” were ever real. It hasn’t stopped us from reading the books and enjoying the movies, however. The point I’m trying to make is that so many Christians try to sanction lying for Dear Old St. Nick. If we’re going to choose to allow our children to believe in Santa (and the Easter Bunny for that matter), then let’s just be honest with ourselves and call it what it is – lying. Can we be okay with it? Even though you were/are okay with how your parents dealt with it, can you be absolutely sure your own children will be? And, just because we’re okay with it, does it make it okay? Thanks for your response, and Merry Christmas to you and your family as well.
    Shannon

  8. Very well said Adrian,
    I too grew up with the knowledge of Sanat Clause. He was by no means the center of the Christmas season but it was fun receiving gifts.
    I have a collection of black santas and I put them all away this year all except two praying santa’s that I found at Homegoods in Falmouth. The praying Santas are bowing on their knees with their hands clasped in prayer and I display them with the scripture Romans 14:11 ” It is written: As surely as I live says the Lord, every knee will bow before me; every tongue will confess to God. I also wrote “Even Santa Claus will say he;s God. By way of introduction I am Marie Blackburn from Heritage Christian Church I met you guys today. Well done!

  9. Thanks Adrian

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